What I learned dealing with people in family and business
Superb photo by: Keith Yeung
I'm learning a lot when it comes to dealing with people--client or family.
I am learning new things and need to unlearn even more. I learned that most of the time I have to be extremely accommodating, patiently quiet and understanding towards people. But I also realized that there times when I have to use some.. what I call 'emotional force'. Some call it 'tough love'. Every person is unique, and putting people in boxed formulas simply does not work in improving our relationships with them. Just ask my wife.
"Life is a paradox," somebody once said and we can't stick to one single map for the rest of our lives. Core values like respect for others' individuality and "treating others how we want to be treated" should never change. But our ways and actions and how we do things--our strategy needs to adapt to our ever increasing changing times.
We need new maps, new ways of thinking but doing so does not mean forgetting--"a person who does not learn from history's mistakes is bound to repeat it". It's mixing the old with the new.
For some reason while writing the last sentence I thought of the T.V show Iron Chef-it involves cooking and serving food but they do it in a way so amazing and entertaining that you'll never see chefs in the same light. They create edible art! My mother once told me after watching an episode, that now she considers herself as an artist. Absolutely.



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